sleeping positions

Forum for parents of injured who are seeking information from other parents or people living with the injury. All welcome
jennyb
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Joined: Fri Nov 02, 2001 5:24 pm
Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: January 1980 Yamaha RD200 vs 16 wheeler truck, result, 1 totally paralysed right arm. I was 21, now 54. I had no surgery, I don't regret this. Decided to totally ignore limitations (easily done aged 21) adapted very quickly to one handed life, got married, had 3 kids, worked- the effect of the injury on my life (once the pain stopped being constant) was minimal and now, aged 54, I very rarely even think of it, unless I bash it or it gets cold, then I wish I'd had it amputated :) Except for a steering knob on my car, I have no adaptations to help with life, mainly because I honestly don't think of myself as disabled and the only thing I can't do is peel potatoes, which is definitely a good thing.

Re: sleeping positions

Post by jennyb »

I'm only 25 years post injury but like you I am recently and for the first time having problems getting comfortable at night. I used to sleep on the right hand (affected) side, too but now seem to spend the whole night tossing and turning, and some mornings my neck is so stiff when I wake up I can't turn my head. If I sleep on the non affected (left) side I need a pillow under my arm and that's annoying and makes me hot. I currently have a virus which my gp says is probably affecting things so I'm hoping that when I've shaken that off I'll be sleeping better. I am also looking into amputation, that dead weight hanging off my shoulder all this time can't be helping and every other long termer I've spoken to who has had it done says it is the best thing they ever did. Scary tho....

I hope you get some slightly less drastic solutions offered! Remember if you do have any kind of stress or illness it will definitely affect the arm, it does mine.
Good luck Jen NZ
rachelcasa
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Re: sleeping positions

Post by rachelcasa »

I too have a horrible habit of sleeping on my left side (affected side). I just went and had a neuromuscular massage and the gal told me to try sleeping with one of those body pillows between my legs at night. It helps keep your spine aligned properly and it has helped me to stay off my bad arm. I do tend to kick the pillow out though and end up on my arm still. At least I'm off of it for a while.
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veggiebug
Posts: 257
Joined: Wed Mar 03, 2004 8:47 pm
Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: I weighed 11 lbs. 4 oz. when I was born.
I was delivered by forceps which resulted in my ROBPI.
I've never had any surgical intervention.
Location: Williamsport PA

Re: sleeping positions

Post by veggiebug »

I too find myself prefering to sleep on my right side which is my affected arm. I don't get entirely comfortable on my unaffected side either, so I sleep with a stuffed animal.
When I go away and forget my stuffed animal I really notice a difference, and not a good one.
So I'm 25 and still sleeping with a stuffed animal. I have also considered a body pillow.
Kath
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Joined: Mon Nov 18, 2002 4:11 pm
Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: I am ROBPI, global injury, Horner's Syndrome. No surgery but PT started at 2 weeks old under the direction of New York Hospital. I wore a brace 24/7 for the first 11 months of my life. I've never let my injury be used as an excuse not to do something. I've approach all things, in life, as a challenge. I approach anything new wondering if I can do it. I tried so many things I might never have tried, if I were not obpi. Being OBPI has made me strong, creative, more determined and persistent. I believe that being obpi has given me a very strong sense of humor and compassion for others.
Location: New York

Re: sleeping positions

Post by Kath »

I am also a poor sleeper... I just cannot find a comfortable spot. I use to sleep on the right obpi side and that kept my arm warm but now it hurts and if I sleep on the left side I need a pillow to prop up the obpi arm and just gets so annoying. And then there is the problem of keeping the right side of my face and robpi arm warm while moving from side to side... Sleeping on my back also causes my neck to get hurt. I sleep very little and thought I was the only poor sleeper.

I twist and turn all night long and usually only sleep 4 to 5 hours straight. If I sleep 6 hours I think I have won a jackpot! Wow thanks for posting this now I know what to blame my sleeping habits on...

Kath
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njbirk
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Re: sleeping positions

Post by njbirk »

I sleep on the non obpi side. The only problem I have is that that arm frequently falls asleep so I am compressing a nerve somewhere. That sometimes wakes me up. Other than that, I am a very very deep sleeper and need a full 8 hours.

Frequently the shoulder falls into me from the obpi side. Hard to describe but you all will know what I mean. The muscles aren't there to hold it in place and the shoulder falls into my face. I find that if I place a pillow under the obpi arm it helps keep this from happening.

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kamren
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Re: sleeping positions

Post by kamren »

I generally toss and turn alot too. I can tell when I haven't because my left (the OBPI side) arm will be asleep. I also sleep with extra pillows. I wrap my arm and leg over them....it really helps. I would suspect a body pillow would work the same as my two pillow method
Carolyn J
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Joined: Tue Apr 06, 2004 1:22 pm
Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: LOBPI. I am 77 yrs old and never had a name for my injuries until 2004 when I found UBPN at age 66.

My injuries are: LOBPI on upper body and Cerebrael Palsy on the lower left extremities. The only intervention I've had is a tendon transplant from my left leg to my left foot to enable flexing t age 24 in 1962. Before that, my foot would freeze without notice on the side when wearing heels AND I always did wear them at work "to fit in" I also stuttered until around age 18-19...just outgrew it...no therapy for it. Also suffered from very very low self esteem; severe Depression and Anxiety attacks started at menopause. I stuffed emotions and over-compensated in every thing I did to "fit in" and be "invisible". My injuries were Never addressed or talked about until age 66. I am a late bloomer!!!!!

I welcome any and all questions about "My Journey".
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Re: sleeping positions

Post by Carolyn J »

OK, I have sleep problems too.I am LOBPI and always thought it was due to,menopause,or sleep apnea. My Dr. recommended a sleep test which I had and they never considered my LOBPI;ruled out sleep apnea and thought it is a medication side effect as I am on a life long course of an antidepressant. Now thanks to you all sharing on this topic I now feel it is OBPI related as I have never had longer than 4-5 hours of sleep for years even before I started on the antidepressant! I also have the same pain issues on my affected side at night as well as arm& hand asleep when I awaken. Thanks everyone,we are not alone!! I will definitely try the body pillow. No position stays comfortable for too long for me & wakes me up.
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Re: sleeping positions

Post by admin »

My son who is 32 has a rbpi from an accident in 95. He has always slept on his back without moving all night with his affected arm just laid out besides him straight after he has taken it out of the sling for sleeping. He told me he hasn't missed sleeping in any other positions. We tease him a little because you can almost see the indentation of his body on the mattress!
Kath
Posts: 3242
Joined: Mon Nov 18, 2002 4:11 pm
Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: I am ROBPI, global injury, Horner's Syndrome. No surgery but PT started at 2 weeks old under the direction of New York Hospital. I wore a brace 24/7 for the first 11 months of my life. I've never let my injury be used as an excuse not to do something. I've approach all things, in life, as a challenge. I approach anything new wondering if I can do it. I tried so many things I might never have tried, if I were not obpi. Being OBPI has made me strong, creative, more determined and persistent. I believe that being obpi has given me a very strong sense of humor and compassion for others.
Location: New York

Re: sleeping positions

Post by Kath »

I hate to say this but I am happy too!

I thought it was just me! When I woke up last night... I laughed to my self because the first thought I had was, all you guys were up too! Well, except for Jenny I can't remember if it is day in NZ when its night here in NY... or if its the next day!

I will try the body pillow
Kath
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jennyb
Posts: 1183
Joined: Fri Nov 02, 2001 5:24 pm
Injury Description, Date, extent, surgical intervention etc: January 1980 Yamaha RD200 vs 16 wheeler truck, result, 1 totally paralysed right arm. I was 21, now 54. I had no surgery, I don't regret this. Decided to totally ignore limitations (easily done aged 21) adapted very quickly to one handed life, got married, had 3 kids, worked- the effect of the injury on my life (once the pain stopped being constant) was minimal and now, aged 54, I very rarely even think of it, unless I bash it or it gets cold, then I wish I'd had it amputated :) Except for a steering knob on my car, I have no adaptations to help with life, mainly because I honestly don't think of myself as disabled and the only thing I can't do is peel potatoes, which is definitely a good thing.

Re: sleeping positions

Post by jennyb »

xiggers, as you too are tbpi I was interested to know if your sleeping had been ok up until the 2 yrs ago you talked about? Mine was ansolutely not a problem until recently, I always slept on my bpi arm and slept like a log. I was wondering if it was my age?? Which I think is around the same as yours from reading your post on the roll call. Your injury sounds EXACTLY like mine, very little upper arm and no lower arm at all. I don't know what other injuries you got at the time of your accident but another thing that has just started happening is that I'm getting intense pain in some of the places my arm was broken, has that ever happened to you? It's very rare I 'meet' a tbpi who has had the injury longer than me and I feel the need to pick your brains!

I think I'm about 18 hours ahead of you guys Kath, so when you're in bed I'm probably in bed some of the time too! At least you have summer, the ski season opened here last weekend.....
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